For many couples, the idea of a prenuptial agreement still carries a bit of stigma. It can feel awkward, maybe even unromantic, to bring up money before the wedding. But the truth is, a prenup isn’t about expecting the worst. It’s about preparing for your future together with honesty and clarity.
Let’s break down what prenuptial agreements are, why they’re not just for the rich, and how they can actually support a stronger, healthier relationship.
What Is a Prenuptial Agreement?
A prenuptial agreement (or “prenup”) is a legal contract couples create before marriage that outlines how property, assets, debts, and finances will be handled during the marriage and if the marriage ends.
It’s not just a divorce plan, it’s a blueprint for financial understanding.
Why More Couples Are Choosing Prenups
- Protect Personal Property
Whether it’s a home, business, or savings account, a prenup keeps what you owned before marriage clearly defined. - Manage Debt Responsibility
If one or both of you are bringing debt into the marriage, a prenup can make sure those responsibilities stay separate. - Clarify Financial Expectations
A prenup allows couples to agree on how to handle money, savings, and expenses from the start, helping avoid misunderstandings later. - Support Family and Inheritance Planning
If you have children from a previous relationship or inherited assets, a prenup can protect those interests.
Common Misconceptions About Prenups
- “They’re only for wealthy people.”
Not true. Anyone with assets, debts, or future goals can benefit. - “They ruin the romance.”
Honest conversations about money can actually build trust and bring couples closer. - “If we get divorced, we’ll just figure it out then.”
Divorce can be emotionally and financially stressful. A prenup reduces uncertainty and conflict.
Best Practices for a Strong Prenup
- Start the conversation early. Don’t wait until the wedding is around the corner.
- Be honest about finances. Full disclosure is key.
- Each partner should have legal representation. This ensures fairness and enforceability.
A prenuptial agreement isn’t about predicting a breakup, it’s about protecting your relationship. It gives couples the space to be proactive, open, and aligned about their future.
Marriage is about love. A prenup is about respect.
If you’re considering a prenuptial agreement and want to understand how it can protect your future, reach out to our experienced team at Shea Stevens Law, LLC, at 913-717-0797 for a consultation. During this session, you’ll have the chance to ask questions, discuss your unique situation, and learn how a well-crafted prenup can support your relationship, reduce financial stress, and lay the groundwork for a clear, respectful partnership, without confusion or conflict down the road.